cheap

i hate cheap people. for real. my old friend wasn't cheap with me even down to the end, even when i wasnt his girl and if i called him up now telling him i was stuck and needed money i would have it. i am not a golddigger, actually if i went out on a date with you i'd pay for myself. however.... the test of the man is: do you offer to pay? do you offer? that's what it comes down to. i have guys take a dinner check from me and insist to pay. haha. although i'm not a golddigger, i do notice when you're being cheap. i just make a mental note and put it in your file. it lets me know that when push comes to shove and if we're serious that i need NOT go out my way for you because you wont do it for me. if you are being cheap when you're in "impress her" mode i'd hate to see you in "comfortable mode". i am a loyal chick and i will most def go out my way to make you happy. i know happiness isn't about material things but sometimes material things do the trick for your man. i'm a "cater 2 u" chick all the way. in the end it comes down to being SELFLESS. i cant do that if i dont think it's going to be reciprocated. now where did this come from? you ask. let's just say i know a woman who gives her all to her man and he doesnt do crap for her in return. she isnt a gold digger but she sure as heck gotta feel bad when he doesn't do anything for her.

what i need in a man:
truthful (as much as a man can be) and selfless... that's it

oh and i like a man that smells good. that's really sexy. hehe. yeah that most def cant be optional.